[LOV3 HURTSz]

okay me and my ex at first were doing really good and i took his virginity and then we started fucking more...and then one day he kinda changed and havent called me or naswered my calls so i thought the best thing to do was break it off buh i really didnt want to do that.i mean i did have ALOT of feelings for him and i really didnt know what to do. and now he acts like it aint bugging him buh when i had my cozin call and say that i want my hoodie bac hes said well let me find it and then she said that someone else was going to come and get it and hes like i dont want to go to jail for hurting someone...then hes like ill juss mail itt. HONESTLY PPL TELL ME THAT HE STILL CARES BOUT ME BUH HES JUSS MAD THAT HE BROEK UP WITH ME. YOU THINK THAT WE WILL GET BAC TOGETHER CAUSE I REALLY CARE FOR HIM BUH I TRY TO PLAY IT OFF LIKE IM COOL WITH IT BUH DSEEP DOWN INSIDE I CANT TAKE IT NOT BEING WITH HIM.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME...?? ARE WE GOING TO GET BAC TOGETHER???

[whitney d]

I dont know Hunnie,
Everything happens for a reason..
Some things Fall apart so other things Can fall together..
And I have wondered the same question..And I have came to know that..If its ment to be it will happen..And If he loves you then You guys will find a way to make it work..But Maybe you wont get back together.. Right Now I would have to say you prolly not..And I know that is hard to hear..Cuz I have had it said to me recently...But in time youll find that Life goes on and Youll find someone to make you happy..and You realize why it all happened..

[Abbey]

I'm afraid most likely not. Its a break up and with heavy feelings (from you) its not suppose to be easy to get over, but it wouldnt be wise for yuo to go back. Its sounds like he recived what he wanted out of you, he filled your head up with love words (in which you probably still truely believe) and then you guys *****. Now that he's experimented on you, he could use on skill with new fresh chicks and not a used one (not to sound mean) its kind of like "been there, done that" for him. So it just would be strange if you continue wishing to get back together. I'm ot goin to call you dumb or anything because we all make mistakes and we all have been manipulated by someone before. But you would be dumb if you want to be with him, go back with him , and etc. Obvioulsy he just wants to explore, not really wanting to settle down. And just so you know having sex doesnt mean that he loves nor cares for you. (a mistake so many young girls make) so it didn't matter how many times you guys di it, it doesnt that he cares for you more or less than if you haven't. Most guys are just anxious to have their first, they like to practice getting a girl. Looking at your question I think that it was ust practice for him. Keep your mind off of him and do something positive for yourself. That means stay away rom him as much as possible, forget the hoodie, and completely disconnect from him Even if he tells you he is sorry and wants to get back. Don't. move on, its for the better.